How often do you drop into your lower belly, your pelvis, your womb space?
Just to check in and see what emotions, what energy you might be holding there?
Often when I’m menstruating and it’s uncomfortable or painful, I’m avoiding it. Can you relate?
I don’t want to feel the pain so I check out in whatever way I can: distractions, groaning & complaining, medicating, and so on.
Often this makes the situation worse. If I can bring my awareness to my womb even and especially when it’s hurting, my experience can change. Have you ever tried to feel the pain and discomfort of something? It’s not usually our approach because it feels awful to feel pain. It can be debilitating. Yet, until we can be in the pain, we can’t actually transform it. We can medicate and numb and this may work in the short-term to have us feel better but it merely masks the root of the problem.
There are other times when I find I’m not in my womb. Being nervous or anxious is always a tip-off that I’m disconnected. And if I clue in and drop into my pelvis, I will typically note what I would describe as a crunchy feeling. Something has been brewing and I haven’t been listening.
And therein is the other thing I notice. If there is some guidance, some wisdom I am avoiding because it means that something in my life has to change. Like I know this but I don’t know this and the frightened part of me wants to keep it that way.
And again, all there is really to do is bring my compassionate awareness to it; remind myself to drop my awareness and my attention inside, be quiet and be with it. Just be.
Because the truth is, it is our space, our wisdom, our intuition. Sometimes having to act on it is scary but it’s actually far, far worse to keep ignoring it.
I’d love to hear from you, what keeps you from accessing your womb space wisdom regularly?
Art: “Underlay in Red” by Andrius Kovelinas